amethyst

for healing
for understanding and cleaning homes of negativity
third eye
noble thoughts
donna noble even..

relieves fear and hunger
helps one stay calm
brings more money and allows generosity.. (they sort of work together)
and it is pretty!

I am telling you this because it might behoove you to get an amethyst and hold it during this Uranus square Pluto which is exact today..but in my experience the damage is already done or the blessing and opportunity to change has already begun..
you already know what is up..
Put you gem on your heart, or somewhere in you home which you'd like to protect and bring in some "home-healing"
Have an awesome calm day..be brave, you are, I know it!