Asked girl in the produce area.
"No, Ibelieve in the law of the universe,
The law of attraction that whatever you do say or think makes for your destiny and fate."
That for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction."
"Ah, I asked your daughter the same thing."
"And what did she say?"
"The same thing :))
Is it some thing mystical or something we constantly change?
"Are we actually destined to be with someone because of a cosmic influence?
And everything that happens to us is meant to be?
Why suffer because someone gets to have fate with you? If a person always says to you, " I don't know, I must be a bad person"
Believe them..it is their mantra.their brain is electrified by those thoughts.
You shouldn't think your love can save them. Save yourself!
You will think!
You will rely on your intuition. You will be kind and friend to all.
You will say words that help you grow and not some bullshit! Read books and have thoughts..real ones like, I will do this now and be tidy.
And yes, there is a blessing in not saying a word about some random good thing you may have done...one day at least...
If not, you could find yourself at a loss on some level...
Maha deva shambo