All I am saying is, if you are all control freak about anything, it isn't going to work.
Step back and see how you pushed the situation to this point.
Yes, we all make mistakes so now take the reigns like a chariot driver and beat some ass with you brain I say.
Moving in on someone else's territory will not make you happy in the end. Focus is now easier and getting your thoughts across is way easier. That means you will get your point across in an efficient and yes, bossy way. You are master, after all!
You are not some puppet to be used like a dummy, you know this, but now you can easily find out what stands in your way and breeze through like particles on a windy day.
People are like, 'wow, really, she is that amazing?"
Yes she is! yes she is!